Dating Coaching
What is the Difference Between Psychotherapy and Coaching?
Psychotherapy focuses on understanding, resolving, and healing emotional trauma and pain carried through from the past. Psychotherapists must practice in the states in which they are licensed. Coaching is focused on the present and future. Coaches can practice worldwide.
Unlike many coaches, I am licensed with a doctorate as a relationship therapist. I have combined my clinical skills with a coaching approach that allows me to be directive, giving you results that will transform your love life. My education and training enable me to bring my clients the best support, techniques, and evidence-based practice to facilitate change.
Why Consider a Dating Coach?
Have you ever felt lost in the world of dating? You may struggle to make meaningful connections or repeat the same relationship patterns. If this sounds familiar, you might wonder if a dating coach could help. You might think, "Do I need someone to teach me how to date?" Well, let me ask you this: have you ever taken lessons for a sport or hobby? Like how a golf pro can help improve your swing, a dating coach can help refine your approach to relationships.
Here are some reasons why people seek out dating coaches:
You're stuck in a rut.
If you repeat the same dating mistakes or attract the wrong type of partner, I will help you identify and break these patterns.
It would be best if you had more confidence.
I will help you recognize your worth and project confidence in dating situations.
You're re-entering or new to the dating scene.
Whether you're recently divorced, widowed, or have been single for a while, I will help you navigate the modern dating landscape.
You want to improve your communication skills.
Effective communication is critical in any relationship. I will teach you how to express yourself clearly and listen actively.
You're still determining what you want.
Sometimes, we need an outside perspective to help us understand our own needs and desires. I will help you clarify your relationship goals.
What to Expect from Dating Coaching
So, what exactly happens when you work with me? While every coach has their approach, here is what you can expect from working with me.
Assessment
I will start by getting to know you, your dating history, and your goals.
Strategy development
Based on your assessment, I will work with you to create a personalized strategy for improving your dating life. We will evaluate dating apps, and I will assist you in making your date-me-doc. To learn more about date-me-docs, please see this article. What Is a 'Date-Me Doc'? Couples Therapists Share Why These Docs Are Trending and How To Use Them
Skill-building
Expect to learn and practice new skills, from conversation starters to body language techniques.
Feedback and support
I will provide honest feedback and support.
Is Dating Coaching Right for You?
Now for the big question: should you hire a dating coach? Here are some things to consider:
Your level of commitment
Working with me requires time, effort, and often a financial investment. Are you ready to put in the work?
Your openness to feedback
I will challenge you and provide honest feedback. Are you open to constructive criticism?
Your specific needs
Do you have particular areas of your dating life you want to improve? It will be beneficial if you have clear goals in mind.
Your budget
Dating coaching can be a significant investment. Consider whether it fits your budget and whether the benefits outweigh the costs.
Dating coaching can be a powerful tool for improving your love life. Working with a dating coach could be a game-changer if you're committed to personal growth, open to feedback, and ready to invest in your romantic future.
Remember that a dating coach is a guide, not a magician. I can provide valuable insights and strategies; ultimately, improving your dating life is up to you.
Available to clients based anywhere, individual coaching sessions are conducted virtually or in person (limited availability to New York City residents). They are designed to assist clients with meeting goals and developing skills separate from any underlying mental health diagnoses or conditions. Clients who identify as non-monogamous, polyamorous, and kinky are welcomed.
Sessions are held weekly, with the option to have sessions every other week or monthly. They run for 45 minutes. Please contact (757) 582-3233 or drleephillips@gmail.com to schedule a free consultation.